I’m discovering joy in telling the world who Pablo was

Members of a triad in B.C. have been recognized as equal parents, changing legal and societal conceptions of what families look like

For most of my adult life, having a child felt scary and unappealing. But queer co-parenting helped me redefine the concept of family—and showed me new depths of love

Mike MacNabb and his husband Ivan Boychuk wanted to remain “together forever,” and now they can

Club Kali was a mainstay of London’s party scene until COVID-19 forced it to go online

My relationship with my partner went through ups and downs—but my transition brought us closer together

As he sawed through my thick mane, we invited queerness into the bathroom—and into our relationship

Kai advises a so-called “sellout” on how to navigate conflict and build boundaries within her community

The death of a dear friend inspires a writer to ask: Who gets to make decisions about your health care if you’re incapacitated?

Trapped in their parents’ house in Bristol, Sam Moore has found a whole new community of queer writers and editors

U.K. writer Jeremy Atherton Lin’s new book chronicles the history of the gay bars he’s visited—and his adventures inside them

She and a group of friends have thoroughly queered “Dungeons and Dragons”

Alanna Why’s group chat offers practical advice, new connections and healthy servings of gossip

All it took was one phone call to start a process of growth, healing, learning and unlearning

Queer the saccharine Hallmark holiday with gifts for your friends, lovers, chosen family and more!

It’s going to get messy

Kai on the difference between conflict and abuse—and the value of healthy anger

Part of being an ally is knowing when to leave a toxic situation

Relationships

My twin died when we were 18. I’m finally finding the words to talk about him

What a Canadian court ruling on polyamory means for multi-parent families

With queer co-parenting, the more is definitely the merrier

A Victoria, B.C., couple’s search for a companion urn is changing the funeral industry

A journalist in London finds Bollywood dreams and self care in a legendary now-virtual South Asian club night

No, transitioning doesn’t always spell the end of a marriage

My straight boyfriend gave me a queer pandemic haircut

I’m imperfect, but I’m trying to make change. How do I stop activists from dragging me?

Chosen family versus COVID-19

A non-binary writer and editor banished from London starts an online zine

Whether epic or humdrum, ‘Gay Bar’ chases the elusive possibility of queer social spaces

A queer settler communications pro finds connection in another world

A bisexual writer in Ottawa fights isolation one focaccia recipe at a time

The journey to myself

A very queer guide to Valentine’s Day 2021

My best friend is hooking up with my worst enemies. What do I do?

My partner and I have loud fights that a friend of mine thinks might be abusive. Is she right? Is yelling the same as abuse?

The ongoing struggle for racial justice forced me to drop my racist ex