Kai answers a reader whose conflict with a friend is further complicated by race, mental health and privilege
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My partner became solo poly without telling me
“Whenever that kind of news comes as a surprise or comes secondhand or thirdhand, then it is likely to be hurtful,” Kai says
All I wanted was to make my family happy, until I found what made me happy
PERSONAL ESSAY: An epic love story between an Iraqi Arab and a Punjabi Sikh
How much space should white-passing people take up in the antiracist movement?
I told my friend she needed to stop centring herself and step back, and she got upset. Was I being too harsh?
My friend has been lying about being poor for years. How can I ever trust them again?
Kai advises a reader whose friend bought a house with the help of family money—after spending more than a decade claiming to be working class
Is a love that starts out red-hot more likely to be a love that burns out?
When I was ready to dive deeper, she started pulling away. I barely had the skills to handle it
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