Kai advises a reader whose friend bought a house with the help of family money—after spending more than a decade claiming to be working class
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Is a love that starts out red-hot more likely to be a love that burns out?
When I was ready to dive deeper, she started pulling away. I barely had the skills to handle it
Am I a bad person for not wanting to talk about my friend’s dysphoria all the time?
“The mark of a healthy relationship is one that can withstand conflict and challenge, and simultaneously, one where everybody’s boundaries are respected.”
I was ready for a long-distance relationship, but I couldn’t live without a queer community that understood me
My difficulty with coming out of the closet kept me lonely while living in a conservative city in Korea
Is it ever the right choice to ‘cancel’ someone?
We’re heading into murky ethical territory, advice columnist Kai Cheng Thom cautions. But even in the darkest places, there is hope, healing and an abundance of life, in all its messy glory
As I medically transitioned, my relationship got a whole lot gayer
Through marriage, pregnancy, birth and transition, my relationship to my partner, a fellow rock climber, kept evolving along with me
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