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My trans partner is no longer attracted to me or my gender. What should I do?
Ask Kai: Quickies

My trans partner is no longer attracted to me or my gender. What should I do?

Ask yourself if sexuality plays a primary role in intimacy, or if sexuality can be explored outside the relationship?

July 28, 2022
I’m a high femme trans lesbian and I really want to play with other high femme trans lesbians. How?
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I’m a high femme trans lesbian and I really want to play with other high femme trans lesbians. How?

What’s important is that we are expressing interest, inviting consent and then we become erotic explorers

July 12, 2022
How do I gain the confidence to use a strap-on?
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How do I gain the confidence to use a strap-on?

Give yourself permission to enter the realm of sexuality with an open mind, ready to get messy and make mistakes

June 15, 2022
Top, bottom, verse or switch? How do I decide?
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Top, bottom, verse or switch? How do I decide?

Sexuality is definitely an experiment, but experiment with people not on people

May 31, 2022
How do you have group sex that isn’t weird?
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How do you have group sex that isn’t weird?

Sex in general can be weird, but a great orgy starts with collective consent and continuous communication

May 17, 2022
How can I tell my partner that I want more alone time?
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How can I tell my partner that I want more alone time?

A tricky question because there could be a lot of other questions behind it

May 3, 2022
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Does being curious about ‘butt stuff’ make me gay?
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Does being curious about ‘butt stuff’ make me gay?

Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe the real question is, “Why does that matter?”

April 19, 2022
Can anyone have nipple orgasms?
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Can anyone have nipple orgasms?

When it comes to pleasure, it all boils down to exploration

April 5, 2022
Is it a good idea to have a threesome with my two best friends?
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Is it a good idea to have a threesome with my two best friends?

Like mixing paints into new colours, erotic intimacy can be surprising

March 22, 2022
Is scissoring actually good for anyone?
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Is scissoring actually good for anyone?

Some people might be into the fantasy and less into the actual experience

March 8, 2022
How can I ask someone to fulfill my mommy fantasy?
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How can I ask someone to fulfill my mommy fantasy?

When it comes to kinky sex, it’s best to test the waters first

February 22, 2022
Sink into your feelings with Rihanna and our Pisces pals
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Sink into your feelings with Rihanna and our Pisces pals

Thomas and Tranna reel in the fantasy-prone fish of the Zodiac

February 18, 2022
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How can I start sexting with someone without being presumptuous or off-putting?
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How can I start sexting with someone without being presumptuous or off-putting?

“Always look for the hallmarks of consent,” Kai says

February 8, 2022
Will my partner still find me attractive if I transition?
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Will my partner still find me attractive if I transition?

Kai says “this is not usually about the trans person’s beauty because trans people are gorgeous and sexy”

January 25, 2022
Let’s get quirky with Paris Hilton and our Aquarius crew
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Let’s get quirky with Paris Hilton and our Aquarius crew

Thomas and Tranna set their sights on the most eccentric sign of the Zodiac

January 20, 2022
My partner is well endowed. What can we do to make sex less painful?
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My partner is well endowed. What can we do to make sex less painful?

The key is to go slow and warm up!

January 11, 2022
Time to get our hustle on with Dolly Parton and our Capricorn pals
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Time to get our hustle on with Dolly Parton and our Capricorn pals

Thomas and Tranna roast the most ambitious sign of the Zodiac

December 20, 2021
My partner and I are vaccinated, but my partner’s parents are not
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My partner and I are vaccinated, but my partner’s parents are not

With the Omicron variant and rising Covid-19 cases, should we be cautious about spending the holidays with family members who are unvaccinated?

December 7, 2021
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