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Relationships

‘Happiest Season’ is the cheesy Christmas movie we deserve
TV & Film

‘Happiest Season’ is the cheesy Christmas movie we deserve

A coming-out story and a holiday rom-com formula shouldn’t work together—but they do

By Erica Lenti
I told my boyfriend he can’t watch porn. Am I too controlling?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

I told my boyfriend he can’t watch porn. Am I too controlling?

Kai Cheng Thom responds to an online sex worker struggling to set relationship boundaries

By Kai Cheng Thom
I live alone, I’m single and I’m starved for physical touch. How can I be intimate with others right now and still stay safe?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

I live alone, I’m single and I’m starved for physical touch. How can I be intimate with others right now and still stay safe?

By Kai Cheng Thom
This gay couple rushed to marry before a possible Trump re-election
Politics

This gay couple rushed to marry before a possible Trump re-election

Living in the swing state of Pennsylvania, Jonathon Wonders and Jason Melcher tied the knot ahead of election results

By Lauren Rowello
My boyfriend enjoys his job as an online sex worker, but I’m worried about his safety. Is my anxiety justified?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

My boyfriend enjoys his job as an online sex worker, but I’m worried about his safety. Is my anxiety justified?

By Kai Cheng Thom
I’m a young lesbian who wants to play the field. Does that make me a fuckboi?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

I’m a young lesbian who wants to play the field. Does that make me a fuckboi?

By Kai Cheng Thom
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I stopped lying to myself, thanks to a stranger at a bar in Guatemala
Love Like Mine

I stopped lying to myself, thanks to a stranger at a bar in Guatemala

For the first time in my life, I wanted someone and felt wanted in return. I had never known what that felt like

By Jack Cape
I think my straight friend might actually be gay. Should I encourage him to come out?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

I think my straight friend might actually be gay. Should I encourage him to come out?

By Kai Cheng Thom
7 steps to open up your relationship
Relationships

7 steps to open up your relationship

Here’s some very practical advice on how to get started from someone who knows

By Andy Bandyopadhyay
I’m an old, out and proud lesbian. Am I transphobic if I don’t want to have sex with trans women?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

I’m an old, out and proud lesbian. Am I transphobic if I don’t want to have sex with trans women?

By Kai Cheng Thom
My girlfriend hates using dental dams. Should we break up?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

My girlfriend hates using dental dams. Should we break up?

By Kai Cheng Thom
Pandemic parenting in a two-mom family means twice the maternal guilt
Parenting

Pandemic parenting in a two-mom family means twice the maternal guilt

In my queer household, we’ve avoided the unequal gendered division of labour, but I still feel like a failure as a mother—and failed by a system that neglects the most vulnerable

By Sarah Liss
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We’re a May-December gay couple and our friends think our relationship is problematic and abusive. Are they right?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

We’re a May-December gay couple and our friends think our relationship is problematic and abusive. Are they right?

By Kai Cheng Thom
Not every lesbian wants to U-Haul
TV & Film

Not every lesbian wants to U-Haul

Wendy Jo Carlton explores lesbian non-monogamy in her new film ‘Good Kisser’

By Nour Abi-Nakhoul
I’m a trans man with a straight cis husband. We’re ready to start a family
Parenting

I’m a trans man with a straight cis husband. We’re ready to start a family

As a bisexual trans man with a straight cis husband, the discussion of having kids is complicated by questions of surrogacy, adoption and raising kids in the U.S.

By Andy Bandyopadhyay
His smell haunts me, even after he disappeared from my life
Love Like Mine

His smell haunts me, even after he disappeared from my life

I tried to commit the layers and notes of his aroma to memory so that I had no regrets when he left

By Daniel Sanchez Torres
I think I’m asexual but I’m into kinky porn, which my friends say is problematic. Am I a bad person?
Ask Kai: Advice for the Apocalypse

I think I’m asexual but I’m into kinky porn, which my friends say is problematic. Am I a bad person?

By Kai Cheng Thom
When miscarriage happens to LGBTQ2 parents
Health

When miscarriage happens to LGBTQ2 parents

When it comes to miscarriage, LGBTQ2 people have been left out and erased from conversations about loss—and reproductive health altogether

By Jessica Zucker
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