Kai advises a reader who wants to honour her friend’s boundaries—without sacrificing her own
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Kai advises a reader who wants to honour her friend’s boundaries—without sacrificing her own
“Consent has many dimensions, and it can be really helpful to go into detail about what’s going on in any given interaction”
A tricky question because there could be a lot of other questions behind it
Stephen Carpenter and Eric Bourne became the first same-sex couple married in British Antarctic territory this past Sunday
My girlfriend and I are experiencing a lot of high-intensity conflict and anger—which is making me question whether either of us is being abusive
Kai Cheng Thom weighs in on boundaries, cultural appropriation and how we can all grow through conflict
Kai advises a reader that relationship anarchy isn’t free from jealousy—or boundaries
Non-abusive conflict can still lead to harm. But, Kai says, “taking accountability is not the same thing as giving up your truth”
Shower every love in your life with gifts galore this Valentine’s Day
Non-monogamous relationships can come with a set of unique challenges. Here’s how to keep your mental health—and your partnerships—strong
Kai weighs in on what to do when your partner is willing to take far more risks than you are
A newly-out lesbian questions why she freezes whenever things heat up between her and her partner
Kai advises a reader who recently came out that there are many ways to build queer community
We spend so much time establishing that transmasculine people can be fathers that we almost never discuss what kind of fathers they might be
With the Omicron variant and rising Covid-19 cases, should we be cautious about spending the holidays with family members who are unvaccinated?
When navigating a loved one’s addiction, giving help that harms us is not really helping anyone.
I’m 32 years old and my partner is 21 years old. Is it still okay to date?
“Care so often needs to flow in a circle. Sometimes the best way to care for others is to care for ourselves”