The queer Canadian hockey drama packs heart and heat, setting it apart from other MLM adaptations

I could only find purpose in my job. It took meeting a special man to pull me out of this cycle

Anyone in a relationship with an AI companion is already having a post-gender romance

OPINION: There should be butches in the “And Just Like That …” universe

Nicola Dinan’s second novel raises big questions about forgiveness, justice and responsibility

REVIEW: Upasna Barath’s swoony debut novel challenges the norms of queer literature

REVIEW: “Paying for It” explores relationships that are romantic, platonic and transactional

Entering middle age, I do not fear death, because it has been a constant companion for me since my 20s

Meg Stalter, Jojo T. Gibbs and Ayden Mayeri talk about creating a endearing, messy, realistic Sapphic love triangle

How Seattle’s steamiest—and gayest—hospital helped me climb out from under a harrowing breakup

In this excerpt from their new book, “Gender/Fucking,” writer and professor Florence Ashley unpacks “chaserdom” and the fetishization of trans femininity

OPINION: Netflix, bring out the U-Hauls!

Better security and screening, Zoe is changing the face of dating apps

A look back at some of Kai’s best and most notable columns

Rachel Scanlon and McKenzie Goodwin feel like “it’s summer camp every night”

Kai weighs in on how to have a “scentsitive” conversation with a new date

Kai weighs in on whether every breakup has to come with an explanation

A trans reader questions at what point a partner’s “preference” can become harmful

Dating

‘Heated Rivalry’ is the steamy hockey romance we deserve

I was married to my work—until I met him

Will AI companions usher in a new age of queer courtship?

Where is Cynthia Nixon in the evolution of Miranda Hobbes?

‘Disappoint Me’ is a study in compassion

‘Comedic Timing’ is an unusually accurate depiction of dating as a bi woman

Sook-Yin Lee’s new film shows that relationships don’t need to follow a specific path

At 40, I celebrate aging as proof of queer survival

‘Cora Bora’ is a coming-of-age movie for people in their thirties

What ‘Grey’s Anatomy’ taught me about being in a queer relationship

The blurred lines between ‘transamory’ and chasing

Why a lesbian ‘Love Is Blind’ just makes sense

Catfish or cuddle queen? Dream date or heartbreak?

Ask Kai’s greatest hits

‘Two Dykes and a Mic’ podcast hosts talk touring, queer community and letting lesbians laugh

I’ve met someone amazing, but I can’t stand the way he smells. How do I talk to him about it?

My hookup lied to me and exposed me to an STI. Can I ghost him?

My boyfriend can’t accept my body hair. Is it time to break up?