The key is to go slow and warm up!
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The key is to go slow and warm up!
A newly-out lesbian questions why she freezes whenever things heat up between her and her partner
6 stories that defined the way we loved and lusted in 2021
Kai advises a reader who recently came out that there are many ways to build queer community
A conversation with S. Bear Bergman on his new illustrated advice book, “Special Topics in Being a Human”
We spend so much time establishing that transmasculine people can be fathers that we almost never discuss what kind of fathers they might be
With the Omicron variant and rising Covid-19 cases, should we be cautious about spending the holidays with family members who are unvaccinated?
When navigating a loved one’s addiction, giving help that harms us is not really helping anyone.
I’m 32 years old and my partner is 21 years old. Is it still okay to date?
OPINION: But the rewards are worth it, especially the sex—wet, filthy, kinky sex where bellies slap and flesh wobbles in shameless ecstasy
When it comes to setting expectations between two people with conflicting desires, it’s best not to try to figure out everything at once
A viewer wants to ask Kai, “Am I allowed to send them home?”
“Care so often needs to flow in a circle. Sometimes the best way to care for others is to care for ourselves”
Am I allowed to tell them how to do it better or is that rude?
“What if clear and honest expressions of desire, messy as they are, were seen as opportunities for growth, change and deepened intimacy?”
A young writer explores a lasting love denied… or is that deferred?
An excerpt from Emily Garside’s new book “Love that Journey for Me: The Queer Revolution of Schitt’s Creek”
Ghanaian writer Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Canadian-Nigerian novelist Francesca Ekwuyasi talk about sex, food and their literary influences