Kai Cheng Thom weighs in on boundaries, cultural appropriation and how we can all grow through conflict
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Kai Cheng Thom weighs in on boundaries, cultural appropriation and how we can all grow through conflict
The new sex toy Balldo promises to help users acheive a “ballgasm.” But is that something any of us really need to have?
When it comes to pleasure, it all boils down to exploration
Kai advises a reader that relationship anarchy isn’t free from jealousy—or boundaries
Like mixing paints into new colours, erotic intimacy can be surprising
Reframing the way we view “autistic traits,” like directness and openness, can make dating better for just about everybody
Non-abusive conflict can still lead to harm. But, Kai says, “taking accountability is not the same thing as giving up your truth”
Everyone from Nordstrom to Nasty Gal is hawking sex toys. But turning pleasure into yet another aspect of wellness isn’t the sex-positive leap forward retailers would like us to believe it is
Some people might be into the fantasy and less into the actual experience
A Black queer mother felt excluded in mainstream parenting spaces so she created an international community for mutual support
Kai advises a trans reader who keeps on getting ghosted: “your actions should be focused on providing yourself with closure instead of trying to squeeze it out of him”
It shouldn’t be shocking that a woman—or any consenting adult for that matter—enjoys giving head
When it comes to kinky sex, it’s best to test the waters first
“It’s important to recognize that our sexual preferences don’t emerge from a vacuum”
For queer and trans readers, erotica can provide a roadmap for realizing our truest selves
Shower every love in your life with gifts galore this Valentine’s Day
“Always look for the hallmarks of consent,” Kai says
The queer hookup app was pulled from mobile download stores days ahead of the Beijing Winter Olympics