Kai advises a reader that “holding multiple truths is more complex than simply holding all truths to be equal—because not all beliefs are equal in social status and social power”
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Kai advises a reader that “holding multiple truths is more complex than simply holding all truths to be equal—because not all beliefs are equal in social status and social power”
Give yourself permission to enter the realm of sexuality with an open mind, ready to get messy and make mistakes
We’re heading into murky ethical territory, advice columnist Kai Cheng Thom cautions. But even in the darkest places, there is hope, healing and an abundance of life, in all its messy glory
Through marriage, pregnancy, birth and transition, my relationship to my partner, a fellow rock climber, kept evolving along with me
Sexuality is definitely an experiment, but experiment with people not on people
Kai advises a reader who wants to honour her friend’s boundaries—without sacrificing her own
Sex in general can be weird, but a great orgy starts with collective consent and continuous communication
“Consent has many dimensions, and it can be really helpful to go into detail about what’s going on in any given interaction”
After a breakup, I thought I wanted to dive headfirst into casual sex. But I learned sexuality and desire are rarely static or easily defined
I’m still afraid of people’s reactions, but I’ve learned to live with the fear
A tricky question because there could be a lot of other questions behind it
Stephen Carpenter and Eric Bourne became the first same-sex couple married in British Antarctic territory this past Sunday
My girlfriend and I are experiencing a lot of high-intensity conflict and anger—which is making me question whether either of us is being abusive
Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe the real question is, “Why does that matter?”
Kai Cheng Thom weighs in on boundaries, cultural appropriation and how we can all grow through conflict
The new sex toy Balldo promises to help users acheive a “ballgasm.” But is that something any of us really need to have?
When it comes to pleasure, it all boils down to exploration
Kai advises a reader that relationship anarchy isn’t free from jealousy—or boundaries