Sex therapist Susan Wenzel answers your burning questions about non-monogamy

After my mother’s death, I turned to my queer community to learn how to grieve

Because it’s our girl friends, not just our girlfriends, who are the greatest loves of our lives

Doulas can improve birth outcomes in marginalized communities. For LGBTQ2 parents, this means a trained companion to help them in the labour room and beyond

I learned more about myself and my partner when I began accepting my mental health as part of my identity

We sat down with the author of ‘How We Fight For Our Lives’ to talk about his memoir, writing about trauma and LGBTQ2 rights in the Trump era

Does a big, white dress betray my queer politics?

There are a lot of stressful things about a wedding—kissing your partner shouldn’t be one of them

‘I didn’t know what it meant to be afraid of another woman’

Relationships

My trans partner is traumatized by her transition, and is too triggered to support me through mine. I’m so hurt. Can this relationship be saved?

Yes, you can have a healthy, happy open relationship. Here’s how

What being queer taught me about death

My abusive ex and I run in the same queer arts circle, and I can’t leave the community without risking my livelihood. What should I do?

How female friendships helped me celebrate my bisexuality

How doulas can help LGBTQ2 parents navigate childbirth

I’m a queer support worker who struggles with addiction. How can I be open about this without risking my job?

Accepting my mental health made me appreciate my relationship

My wife and I are new parents—and I’m miserable and exhausted. How can I stop feeling like a terrible parent?

Saeed Jones is fighting for our lives

I’m a millennial lesbian, but I still want a traditional wedding

After my divorce I came out as gay—now my adult kids hate me. How do I mend our relationship?

I was scared to kiss my husband on our wedding day

My white queer friends think I should ditch my Southeast Asian parents for the holidays because they don’t accept that I’m queer. Who do I choose?

My best friends are having babies, but I don’t want kids. How do I stay connected to my chosen family?

I’m bisexual and going on my first date with another woman after coming out. I’m nervous. Will I know what to do?

I’m a sex worker and my partner is making me feel ashamed about what I do. Do I leave him or my job?

When your abuser is also queer