After a breakup, I thought I wanted to dive headfirst into casual sex. But I learned sexuality and desire are rarely static or easily defined
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After a breakup, I thought I wanted to dive headfirst into casual sex. But I learned sexuality and desire are rarely static or easily defined
I’m still afraid of people’s reactions, but I’ve learned to live with the fear
Reframing the way we view “autistic traits,” like directness and openness, can make dating better for just about everybody
Kai advises a trans reader who keeps on getting ghosted: “your actions should be focused on providing yourself with closure instead of trying to squeeze it out of him”
“It’s important to recognize that our sexual preferences don’t emerge from a vacuum”
“Breaking up is nearly always unpleasant. If you have to be a villain—temporarily!—how can you play that role with the greatest possible integrity and kindness?”
A newly-out lesbian questions why she freezes whenever things heat up between her and her partner
I’m 32 years old and my partner is 21 years old. Is it still okay to date?
When it comes to setting expectations between two people with conflicting desires, it’s best not to try to figure out everything at once
A viewer wants to ask Kai, “Am I allowed to send them home?”
“Care so often needs to flow in a circle. Sometimes the best way to care for others is to care for ourselves”
“What if clear and honest expressions of desire, messy as they are, were seen as opportunities for growth, change and deepened intimacy?”
A young writer explores a lasting love denied… or is that deferred?
Comedian Tricia Black interviews writer Brian Francis about his hilarious and touching new memoir
Need a beach read? We revisit some of the best works of fiction and non-fiction our writers have picked up so far this year
Can we really have a “hot vax summer”?
What queering public spaces with anxious, hopeful bodies might look like post-lockdown
We were like two subatomic particles moving in space, never really able to be in the same place or time