“No one knows how to flirt. It is an ancient mystery stretching back to the dawn of time,” Kai Cheng Thom says. “Yes, there are people who write books about it, there are YouTube videos, there are scam artists, there are tips, there are tricks, but no one knows how to flirt. Why? Because it is not a formula. It’s so much about feeling the energy of the other person and knowing what feels flirty to them, what feels flirty to you, and what the overlap is.”
It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quickies,” offering sex and relationship advice for those in a hurry.
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