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Love Like Mine

This reader-submitted essay series explores love in all its guises—romantic, obsessive, familial, platonic… you name it. If you are interested in submitting a potential essay, please go here.

A gentlemanly woman asked me the sweetest and bravest question ever. It changed my life
Love Like Mine

A gentlemanly woman asked me the sweetest and bravest question ever. It changed my life

They said with words what my heart had been screaming and my brain had been muting since we met

By Marie Glass
My lover used to cook for me. When she stopped, I knew our relationship was over
Love Like Mine

My lover used to cook for me. When she stopped, I knew our relationship was over

Every time she didn’t offer to make ravioli, I heard, “You aren’t the woman I want to keep”

By Lauren Parker
Carly Rae Jepsen’s music was the soundtrack of my first gay love
Love Like Mine

Carly Rae Jepsen’s music was the soundtrack of my first gay love

Somewhere between the lyrics and catchy harmony, I fell in love

By KC Hoard
Accepting my mental health made me appreciate my relationship
Love Like Mine

Accepting my mental health made me appreciate my relationship

I learned more about myself and my partner when I began accepting my mental health as part of my identity

By Jon Higgins
I was scared to kiss my husband on our wedding day
Love Like Mine

I was scared to kiss my husband on our wedding day

There are a lot of stressful things about a wedding—kissing your partner shouldn’t be one of them

By Brian Francis
Falling in love with my Black, queer, fat body
Love Like Mine

Falling in love with my Black, queer, fat body

My grandfather’s death taught me the depths of grief — and the importance of loving my unruly body

By Arkee E
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I was outed as bisexual. Falling in love helped me come out on my own terms
Love Like Mine

I was outed as bisexual. Falling in love helped me come out on my own terms

I spent years grappling with my sexuality — until she helped me come out on my own terms

By Thokozani Mbwana
Coming out and coming home to Mormon country
Love Like Mine

Coming out and coming home to Mormon country

What it’s like to return to a place where I never thought I could be myself

By Samantha Allen
I’m not for everyone, but she still chose me
Love Like Mine

I’m not for everyone, but she still chose me

She chose this life with me over any other, and I’ll happily do what I can to make sure she doesn’t change her mind

By Sofie Mikhaylova
Coming out to my grandmother over and over again
Love Like Mine

Coming out to my grandmother over and over again

Before she got Alzheimer’s, she never got to know me and after all of this, she never really will

By Connor Garel
I fell in love with my middle school mean girl
Love Like Mine

I fell in love with my middle school mean girl

I didn’t expect to find romance in my small town

By Baylea Jones
I had a teenage lesbian love affair at Jewish summer camp
Love Like Mine

I had a teenage lesbian love affair at Jewish summer camp

It was intense and condensed — and we fooled no one but ourselves

By Belle Riley Thompson
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Coming out to David Sedaris
Love Like Mine

Coming out to David Sedaris

How meeting one of my heroes reminded me to love my feminine self

By Avneet Sharma
How my bisexual big sister blazed a path for me
Love Like Mine

How my bisexual big sister blazed a path for me

We have two queer identities, but share one sibling bond

By Hannah Moskowitz
One love story told two ways
Love Like Mine

One love story told two ways

“I think I’m trans, too,” I said. “That’s okay,” he said, “I know.”

By Dylan Morrison, Rowan Morrison
You thought your coming out story was complicated?
Love Like Mine

You thought your coming out story was complicated?

I was a lesbian who turned straight overnight. Then my husband came out as a trans woman.

By Lindsay
How weekly trips to the theatre with my father helped me come out as gay
Love Like Mine

How weekly trips to the theatre with my father helped me come out as gay

He learned that my sexuality didn’t entirely define me

By Joey Moser
I came out as trans while in a heterosexual relationship
Love Like Mine

I came out as trans while in a heterosexual relationship

‘He said he was not attracted to men — even the man who used to be his girlfriend’

By Jonathan U
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