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Love & Sex

How to step your flirt game up if you’re an older lesbian

How to step your flirt game up if you’re an older lesbian

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How do we talk about consent in gay social spaces?
Opinion

How do we talk about consent in gay social spaces?

Talking about consent in these environments can be challenging, but it’s the only way we’ll learn to be conscious of each other’s limits

By Aeryn Pfaff
13 photos of love and resistance from Vancouver’s Trans March 2017
Love & Sex

13 photos of love and resistance from Vancouver’s Trans March 2017

As trans, two-spirit, genderqueer people and allies take over Commercial Drive

By Wulfric Odinson
I roleplayed as a door-to-door canvasser to fulfil my client’s desires (Part 2)
Hard Labour

I roleplayed as a door-to-door canvasser to fulfil my client’s desires (Part 2)

It’s an odd experience to have the empty eyes of nearly 200 masks staring at you while you’re trying to get off

By Devon Delacroix
I roleplayed as a door-to-door canvasser to fulfil my client’s desires (Part 1)
Hard Labour

I roleplayed as a door-to-door canvasser to fulfil my client’s desires (Part 1)

It was hard to be serious when my client’s apartment looked like a bag of leprechauns exploded

By Devon Delacroix
The titillating narrative of sex work and lesbianism in the Roman Empire
History

The titillating narrative of sex work and lesbianism in the Roman Empire

Lucan’s dialogues about same-sex female love were telling, but its characters still didn’t get happy endings

By Michael Lyons
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I wore a snowmobile suit and winter boots for a sex-work client (Part 2)
Hard Labour

I wore a snowmobile suit and winter boots for a sex-work client (Part 2)

By Devon Delacroix
I wore a snowmobile suit and winter boots for a sex-work client (Part 1)
Hard Labour

I wore a snowmobile suit and winter boots for a sex-work client (Part 1)

By Devon Delacroix
How Facebook helped me reconcile my sexuality as a queer Arab man
Opinion

How Facebook helped me reconcile my sexuality as a queer Arab man

I had spent years avoiding overt statements of my sexuality on social media, but I couldn’t hide any longer

By Mike Miksche
Why I love cum dumps
Opinion

Why I love cum dumps

A story of overcoming anxiety and taking loads

By Kevin Moroso
Sergius and Bacchus, the queer saints
Opinion

Sergius and Bacchus, the queer saints

Whether fiction or a somewhat true story passed down through time, these saints are gay icons

By Michael Lyons
What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 2)
Opinion

What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 2)

His relationship with his husband made me question my beliefs about love

By Devon Delacroix
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The masturbation misadventures of a sex toy reviewer
Opinion

The masturbation misadventures of a sex toy reviewer

From a shoe with butt plug-shaped heels to an alarm clock vibrator, my job isn’t always as glamourous as it sounds

By Kate Sloan
Why do people masturbate differently?
Opinion

Why do people masturbate differently?

What gets you off can change, so what does that mean for how you do it?

By Pega Ren
What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 1)
Opinion

What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 1)

It’s usually me playing the role of the therapist, not the other way around

By Devon Delacroix
Eight handy tips on masturbation for when the mood strikes
Opinion

Eight handy tips on masturbation for when the mood strikes

Whether you’re in the shower, driving or at work — the possibility for pleasure is endless

By Titus Androgynous
How an X-Men character became my sexual conquest
Opinion

How an X-Men character became my sexual conquest

My love of Cyclops launched me into adulthood — in the best way possible

By JP Larocque
How a revealing book on my mom’s nightstand gave me my first orgasm
Opinion

How a revealing book on my mom’s nightstand gave me my first orgasm

It’s all fun and games until you come on a book that’s not yours

By Ryan Kelly
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