He’s given me more details for this role-play than any of my other clients, but the more precisely laid out the scene, the more ways it can go wrong

My mother had no problem with other people’s fluid sexualities, but she had absolutely no desire for her daughter to be anything but straight

When it comes to role-play, clients send me a brief summary of what they want — he sent eight pages

What non-Americans can do to protect their privacy at the border

Is it discriminatory to refuse to consider dating someone of a particular ethnicity?

Cruising in India was too dangerous. I would have to wait until I got back to Canada

Suddenly, I notice a small serrated kitchen knife in his left hand

Though briefly decriminalized, homosexuality is a crime here so I needed to be careful

An unexpected hookup, a magic word, and the strange psychology of age-play

Given the wad of cash he threw down, I should probably stick around for a couple of hours

In a city infamous for sex tourism, why wasn’t I in the mood?

Some community members applauding decision to ban uniformed police, while others opposed

Choosing the wrong queer film can lead to awkwardness or ugly crying

Can a sex show go too far?

Am I into sthenolagnia?

It was a random meeting in a bar that led to me being here — and yet he clearly had this whole setup arranged before he left the house

Am I into sthenolagnia?

Ihara Saikaku’s book of short stories celebrated male relationships in the 17th century

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