Kai suggests ways an isolated gay man can live out his stories of need and pain
Kai Cheng Thom
Kai Cheng Thom is a writer, performer, and social worker who divides her heart between Montreal and Toronto, unceded Indigenous territories. She is the author of the Lambda Award-nominated novel Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girl's Confabulous Memoir (Metonymy Press), as well as the poetry collection a place called No Homeland (Arsenal Pulp Press). Her latest book, Falling Back in Love with Being Human, a collection of letters and poetry, is out now from Penguin Random House Canada.
I told my boyfriend he can’t watch porn. Am I too controlling?
Kai Cheng Thom responds to an online sex worker struggling to set relationship boundaries
I live alone, I’m single and I’m starved for physical touch. How can I be intimate with others right now and still stay safe?
My boyfriend enjoys his job as an online sex worker, but I’m worried about his safety. Is my anxiety justified?
I’m a young lesbian who wants to play the field. Does that make me a fuckboi?
I think my straight friend might actually be gay. Should I encourage him to come out?
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