Unsolicited advice from Kai Cheng Thom

Because the best kind of advice is the kind you didn't ask for

Xtra columnist and author Kai Cheng Thom is here in a super-special holiday edition to offer some last-minute tips before we close the books on this godforsaken year. It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry. 

Have a question for Kai? Email askkai@dailyxtra.com.

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