“Different kinds of stimulation are needed for different kinds of people. Different levels of intensity are needed for different kinds of people,” says Xtra advice columnist Kai Cheng Thom. “If you’ve never had a nipple orgasm before, but you’re really interested in trying to have one, I might suggest playing with your nipples or experimenting with them in ways that you haven’t before.”
It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.