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They send the problematic message that trans women’s bodies are anything-goes sexual playgrounds

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I’m dating a woman in a polyamorous relationship and I feel like her last priority. Am I better off alone?

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The best LGBTQ2-friendly sex toys for partner play

I accidentally ordered a magic wand as my first sex toy. It changed my life

How to masturbate on cam like a pro, according to queer cam performers

11 mind-blowing masturbation moments in pop culture

I’m bored in isolation. Can I have sex with my roommate?

Kick off Masturbation Month right with our steamy ‘Party for One’ playlist

Getting it on online: Queer sex during COVID-19

My girlfriend and I have an active sex life—but she won’t go down on me. How do I bring this up without shaming her?

Getting to the bottom of topping stereotypes

I just got out of a long-term, sexless relationship. I want to hire a sex worker but I’m conflicted, and self-conscious. Should I just forget it?

Yes, you can have a healthy, happy open relationship. Here’s how

No, trans sex dolls are not empowering

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I want to explore polyamory but I live in a small community. What happens if word gets out?

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