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The ongoing struggle for racial justice forced me to drop my racist ex
Part of being an ally is knowing when to leave a toxic situation
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I’m friends with my ex, but I still have feelings for them. How can I move on?
Kai Cheng Thom offers rituals to heal our grieving hearts and release our unrequited loves
LGBTQ2S+ people are feeding their communities—and you can, too
Advice on how to get involved from queers on the frontlines of food insecurity
From the frontlines of democracy in D.C.
Senior editor Zaina Arafat was in Washington when the insurrection on Capitol Hill broke out
4 queer and trans happenings to wind you up or down this week
What to watch, read, listen to or look at beginning Jan. 7
‘Dream Daddy’ is the gayest game that almost wasn’t
In between dating a husky outdoorsman, a bad dad and a Goth trans man, writer Bobby Box found time to talk with the hit game’s creators
Decoding vaginismus
A gynecologist talks about sexual shame and the mind-body connection in diagnosing and treating the condition in queer and trans folks
‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Season 13 premiere power ranking
The winners and the Porkchops from a surprising Episode 1
The righteous queens and shady bitches who dominated 2020
Celebrating the best and condemning the worst of a year unlike any other
The year in music
5 sweet, sweet jams that lifted us up in 2020
The year in books
A quixotic selection of the 5 best LGBTQ2S+ titles released in 2020
Experimental hip-hop meets gothic folk in the Kootenays
Uschi Tala’s unique music connects their self-healing to the lush natural environment of Sinixt territory
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Getting sober and coming out
For a long time, alcohol worked to suppress my questioning—until my questions became too powerful to ignore
The Top 10 ‘Drag Race’ episodes of all time
Everyone has an opinion about the best season, but which individual episodes stand out?
4 queer and trans happenings to wind you up or down in the week ahead
What to watch, read, listen to or look at beginning Nov. 26
In virtual classrooms, Canadian students keep getting deadnamed
Preferred name policies in schools have proven even more challenging during COVID-19
New to fisting? Here’s our handy guide
Nurse practitioner Miles Harris answers every question—and we mean EVERY question—you might have about fisting
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