How do I talk to my boss about my name and pronouns?

A trans reader asks how to advocate for their rights at work

A trans reader asks Kai how to talk to their boss about using their name and pronouns as they start their transition. Kai isn’t totally convinced capitalism and work will continue to exist, but assuming they do, she has a few pieces of advice for our reader. 

It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry. 

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