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From the frontlines of democracy in D.C.
Senior editor Zaina Arafat was in Washington when the insurrection on Capitol Hill broke out
‘Drag Race’ herstorian Kevin O’Keeffe breaks down the best-ever runway looks
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Topline: Gay for pay
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‘Dream Daddy’ is the gayest game that almost wasn’t
In between dating a husky outdoorsman, a bad dad and a Goth trans man, writer Bobby Box found time to talk with the hit game’s creators
Decoding vaginismus
A gynecologist talks about sexual shame and the mind-body connection in diagnosing and treating the condition in queer and trans folks
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Should straight actors playing gay be a fossil of the past?
A discussion with “Ammonite” director Francis Lee leads to an excavation into the complexities of representation
On the internet, anything can be a lesbian
Inside the meme that fills in the gaps of lacklustre queer representation
‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Season 13 premiere power ranking
The winners and the Porkchops from a surprising Episode 1
‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Season 13 premiere recap: Welcome, and goodbye
A lip sync twist makes this the most high-stakes, enjoyable premiere since Season 8
Unsolicited advice from Kai Cheng Thom
Because the best kind of advice is the kind you didn’t ask for
The year in sex
6 developments that showed we were hot and bothered—or is that bothered and hot?—in 2020
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