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I stopped lying to myself, thanks to a stranger at a bar in Guatemala
Love Like Mine

I stopped lying to myself, thanks to a stranger at a bar in Guatemala

For the first time in my life, I wanted someone and felt wanted in return. I had never known what that felt like

By Jack Cape
I find myself through coming out to strangers, again and again
Love Like Mine

I find myself through coming out to strangers, again and again

If they say something ignorant or hurtful, I can choose to never see them again. I don’t have that option with my loved ones

By Xiaoxiao Meng
I changed my name and fell in love with my true self
Love Like Mine

I changed my name and fell in love with my true self

My new name feels right, like I’m finally home

By Mackenzie Casalino
What my dad’s coming out taught me about my own identity
Love Like Mine

What my dad’s coming out taught me about my own identity

Growing up, I saw the damage done by a life lived in secret—but I also understood his fear of rejection

By Gordon Nore
A gentlemanly woman asked me the sweetest and bravest question ever. It changed my life
Love Like Mine

A gentlemanly woman asked me the sweetest and bravest question ever. It changed my life

They said with words what my heart had been screaming and my brain had been muting since we met

By Marie Glass
I’m stuck with my conservative family in New Delhi during the pandemic. Here’s what I’ve learned about myself
Personal Essay

I’m stuck with my conservative family in New Delhi during the pandemic. Here’s what I’ve learned about myself

Trapped in a household with opposing beliefs, I’ve confronted old demons that made me feel like I wasn’t good enough

By J Kumar
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Carly Rae Jepsen’s music was the soundtrack of my first gay love
Love Like Mine

Carly Rae Jepsen’s music was the soundtrack of my first gay love

Somewhere between the lyrics and catchy harmony, I fell in love

By KC Hoard
I was scared to kiss my husband on our wedding day
Love Like Mine

I was scared to kiss my husband on our wedding day

There are a lot of stressful things about a wedding—kissing your partner shouldn’t be one of them

By Brian Francis
I was outed as bisexual. Falling in love helped me come out on my own terms
Love Like Mine

I was outed as bisexual. Falling in love helped me come out on my own terms

I spent years grappling with my sexuality — until she helped me come out on my own terms

By Thokozani Mbwana
I’m a queer Black woman — misogynoir cost me my health
Health

I’m a queer Black woman — misogynoir cost me my health

How sexism and racism in the medical system undermines my community’s pain

By Almah LaVon Rice
Coming out to my grandmother over and over again
Love Like Mine

Coming out to my grandmother over and over again

Before she got Alzheimer’s, she never got to know me and after all of this, she never really will

By Connor Garel
I fell in love with my middle school mean girl
Love Like Mine

I fell in love with my middle school mean girl

I didn’t expect to find romance in my small town

By Baylea Jones
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How the Canadian government legally recognized this gay couple’s 50 years together
Feature

How the Canadian government legally recognized this gay couple’s 50 years together

Ron and Lloyd Cameron-Lewis built a relationship the government wouldn’t recognize — until now

By Rachel Levy-McLaughlin
I had a teenage lesbian love affair at Jewish summer camp
Love Like Mine

I had a teenage lesbian love affair at Jewish summer camp

It was intense and condensed — and we fooled no one but ourselves

By Belle Riley Thompson
Coming out to David Sedaris
Love Like Mine

Coming out to David Sedaris

How meeting one of my heroes reminded me to love my feminine self

By Avneet Sharma
What I learned about sex work and writing
Hard Labour

What I learned about sex work and writing

Devon Delacroix reflects on four years of writing “Hard Labour”

By Devon Delacroix
How my bisexual big sister blazed a path for me
Love Like Mine

How my bisexual big sister blazed a path for me

We have two queer identities, but share one sibling bond

By Hannah Moskowitz
Rewriting my gay narrative with Totally F***ed Up
People Like Me

Rewriting my gay narrative with Totally F***ed Up

What happened to the Gay Boy after the final credits rolled?

By Cason Sharpe
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