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Opinion

The political rebellion of being black and non-binary
Opinion

The political rebellion of being black and non-binary

Within black communities, there is little room for gender non-conformity. For me it’s essential to my survival

By Cicely-Belle Blain
Why I love cum dumps
Opinion

Why I love cum dumps

A story of overcoming anxiety and taking loads

By Kevin Moroso
Sergius and Bacchus, the queer saints
Opinion

Sergius and Bacchus, the queer saints

Whether fiction or a somewhat true story passed down through time, these saints are gay icons

By Michael Lyons
What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 2)
Opinion

What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 2)

His relationship with his husband made me question my beliefs about love

By Devon Delacroix
The masturbation misadventures of a sex toy reviewer
Opinion

The masturbation misadventures of a sex toy reviewer

From a shoe with butt plug-shaped heels to an alarm clock vibrator, my job isn’t always as glamourous as it sounds

By Kate Sloan
Why do people masturbate differently?
Opinion

Why do people masturbate differently?

What gets you off can change, so what does that mean for how you do it?

By Pega Ren
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Meet the new Conservative leadership: the same as the old one
Opinion

Meet the new Conservative leadership: the same as the old one

Andrew Scheer rode to victory on the backs of anti-LGBT voters while pledging to maintain Harper’s mostly-benign antipathy to us

By Rob Salerno
What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 1)
Opinion

What I learned about myself during an encounter with a disabled married client (Part 1)

It’s usually me playing the role of the therapist, not the other way around

By Devon Delacroix
Eight handy tips on masturbation for when the mood strikes
Opinion

Eight handy tips on masturbation for when the mood strikes

Whether you’re in the shower, driving or at work — the possibility for pleasure is endless

By Titus Androgynous
How an X-Men character became my sexual conquest
Opinion

How an X-Men character became my sexual conquest

My love of Cyclops launched me into adulthood — in the best way possible

By JP Larocque
How a revealing book on my mom’s nightstand gave me my first orgasm
Opinion

How a revealing book on my mom’s nightstand gave me my first orgasm

It’s all fun and games until you come on a book that’s not yours

By Ryan Kelly
How history seduced me into loving an older man
Opinion

How history seduced me into loving an older man

George introduced me to gay history, which is filled with relationships between older and often much younger men

By Jeremy Willard
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How I taught a bottom to top
Opinion

How I taught a bottom to top

Anything is possible with patience and Viagra

By Kevin Moroso
How I almost ruined Christmas with a vibrating egg
Opinion

How I almost ruined Christmas with a vibrating egg

Who doesn’t masturbate with a new sexy toy in their mother’s basement on Christmas Eve?

By David Benjamin Tomlinson
Why I’m torn between the BC Greens and the NDP
Opinion

Why I’m torn between the BC Greens and the NDP

Horgan and Weaver both impressed me on LGBT questions and broader social change. So who gets my vote?

By Robin Perelle
When sex work is unsexy (Part 4)
Opinion

When sex work is unsexy (Part 4)

He stares at me, his mouth hanging open

By Devon Delacroix
What happens when your pseudonym gets in the way of your sex life?
Opinion

What happens when your pseudonym gets in the way of your sex life?

Some people think that I’m always down for sex because of my column. But I’m not Mike Miksche

By Mike Miksche
How my love of an ’80s musical made me the ultimate Xanadude
Opinion

How my love of an ’80s musical made me the ultimate Xanadude

Seeing Xanadu again 37 years later brought back fond memories of my gay adolescence

By Tony Correia
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