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Farewell, so long
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Farewell, so long

A retrospective idea montage

November 9, 2005
Your kink, my kink
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Your kink, my kink

But it’s all good

October 12, 2005
Our parallel universe
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Our parallel universe

Double standard applied to SM practitioners

September 22, 2005
Only if the shoe fits
Vancouver

Only if the shoe fits

Do you need to bottom to top?

September 14, 2005
The gifts of the kinky
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The gifts of the kinky

How Canadian society could benefit from the BDSM community

August 17, 2005
Still priceless
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Still priceless

Exchange of goodies and services

July 20, 2005
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Donald Bakker: Not my kind of sadist
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Donald Bakker: Not my kind of sadist

Donald Bakker not into equal power-lending games

June 22, 2005
Mistress Manners
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Mistress Manners

Common dungeon faux pas

May 25, 2005
Let the games begin
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Let the games begin

Synchronized Flogging, anyone?

April 27, 2005
Let the games begin
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Let the games begin

Synchronized Flogging, anyone?

April 27, 2005
Clothes cow
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Clothes cow

Shifting the focus from what we wear to what we do

March 30, 2005
Clothes cow
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Clothes cow

Shifting the focus from what we wear to what we do

March 30, 2005
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Scrabbling at the door
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Scrabbling at the door

Ushering newbies into the leather fold

March 2, 2005
Scrabbling at the door
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Scrabbling at the door

Ushering newbies into the leather fold

March 2, 2005
Finding play partners
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Finding play partners

A pub in the hand is worth six trips to the disco

February 16, 2005
Finding play partners
Vancouver

Finding play partners

A pub in the hand is worth six trips to the disco

February 2, 2005
Victim Dictum
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Victim Dictum

SM enhances, not abuses, life

December 8, 2004
Hell-bent in leather
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Hell-bent in leather

When is a line crossed?

November 10, 2004
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