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Just say no
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Just say no

Only you can give consent

October 13, 2004
Spokesqueer
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Spokesqueer

Oh, how little I know

September 15, 2004
Man’s best friend
Vancouver

Man’s best friend

Pets organize to stop sex

August 18, 2004
Some truth in fiction
Vancouver

Some truth in fiction

Trying to decipher hetero movies

July 21, 2004
Abuse police
Vancouver

Abuse police

Personal decency the way to regulate SM

June 23, 2004
Got Kink?
Vancouver

Got Kink?

TV series has lasting repercussions

May 26, 2004
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Protocols
Vancouver

Protocols

Or manipulations?

April 28, 2004
Master-or Mythtress?
Vancouver

Master-or Mythtress?

What’s a real top?

March 31, 2004
Marks of approval
Vancouver

Marks of approval

Leaving behind a reminder of good SM

March 3, 2004
She likes it
Vancouver

She likes it

Learning to control that strap-on

February 4, 2004
Grown-up brats
Vancouver

Grown-up brats

When your bottom misbehaves – for fun

January 7, 2004
Path of edgy porn
Vancouver

Path of edgy porn

A pornographer examines her passion-and society’s fears

December 10, 2003
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Abusing my religion
Vancouver

Abusing my religion

Is clinging to church unhealthy masochism?

November 12, 2003
Bondage is freedom
Vancouver

Bondage is freedom

My bondage takedown

October 15, 2003
Forcibly art-ed
Vancouver

Forcibly art-ed

In the name of queer art

September 17, 2003
When good scenes go bad
Vancouver

When good scenes go bad

Unsafe play, indeed

August 20, 2003
Raisins on the grapevine
Vancouver

Raisins on the grapevine

Beward the internet rumour mill

July 23, 2003
Leather bed death
Vancouver

Leather bed death

Remember the glory days?

June 25, 2003
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