How can I start sexting with someone without being presumptuous or off-putting?

“Always look for the hallmarks of consent,” Kai says

“It’s better to ask in a clear way than it is to ask in a vague way that you think is more graceful because with clear questions, you tend to get clearer answers,” Kai Cheng Thom advises.

It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.

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