Put your best blowjob forward

Jamye Waxman's recipe for fellatio success

“It’s not a specific twist, turn, lick, flick,” says Jamye Waxman of how to give your partner the best blowjob he’s ever had. “It’s enthusiasm.”

Waxman, a sex expert and writer, says she follows the three Es when discussing blowjobs: enthusiasm, eye contact and emoting.

While eye contact provides a connection, it’s always important that both partners express how they feel, giving cues for what works and what is most enjoyable, she says.

Waxman talks about the most sensitive parts of the penis and which condoms are best for those who want to use protection while giving head.

Check out more of Waxman’s tips in Xtra‘s video interview.



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