Is scissoring actually good for anyone?

Some people might be into the fantasy and less into the actual experience

“I think scissoring, like a lot of other sex acts, kind of gets a bad rap sometimes or we can we can be flippant about it,” says Kai. “But one of the big things about being a mature adult and being sex positive… is acknowledging that some people are into something and you’re not into it, and we don’t have to yuck their yum.”

It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.

Keep Reading

Xtra Explains: Parental rights

What does Canadian law actually say when it comes to the rights of parents and trans kids?

Xtra Explains: Social vs. medical transition

Media and politicians like to fixate on the medical aspects of transition. But for most trans youth, social transition plays a much bigger part in their lives

Could Canadian conservatives copy Trump’s anti-trans messaging?

The president-elect’s final ad push—and subsequent election win—may have Canada’s right looking to lean in on anti-trans messaging

Xtra Explains: Detransition

In reality, only around three percent of trans people experience some form of regret