Is scissoring actually good for anyone?

Some people might be into the fantasy and less into the actual experience

“I think scissoring, like a lot of other sex acts, kind of gets a bad rap sometimes or we can we can be flippant about it,” says Kai. “But one of the big things about being a mature adult and being sex positive… is acknowledging that some people are into something and you’re not into it, and we don’t have to yuck their yum.”

It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.

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