Everyone thinks I’m gay—except me. Do I need to do anything about this?

Or should I just let it be?

Kai Cheng Thom answers a reader who’s trying to work out how to talk to his friends about his sexuality, which might not be what everyone seems to think it is. It’s our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry. 

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