Can you tell if a guy is a top or bottom by how he dances?

By Raziel Reid • September 30, 2014 12:45 pm EDT

Can you tell if a guy is a top or a bottom based on how he dances? YouTuber John Bird thinks there are some differentiators.

Bottoms, he claims, have hips that don’t lie, and tops, although masters of the fist pump, aren’t quite the Fred Astaires of the club . . .

Check out Bird busting a few example moves:

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