Who’s the child here again?

Seems a young
woman in a tuxedo, arm in arm with her girlfriend at a prom, was too much of a vision
of the 2012 kind for some truly
inspired Mississippi parents.

Inspired, because
they actually dreamed up a particularly vicious plan to derail lesbian student Constance
McMillen’s wish to celebrate her graduation with her date and the rest of her
cohort.

Wrap this around
your conspiracy-theory grey matter, people: they sent her a fake invitation to a fake prom, while staging an actual prom at
a “secret location” for Constance’s graduating class — without her.

Constance (pictured below with her dad) and
her date ended up with five other students — two with learning difficulties —
at the “fake” country club event, McMillen told The Advocate.

Constance’s reaction?

“They had the
time of their lives. That’s the one good thing that’s come out of this, [these
kids] didn’t have to worry about people making fun of them [at their prom].”

“The Child is
father of the man…” William Wordsworth wrote in “The Rainbow.”

And in her
approach to what has degenerated into nothing less than a psychological hazing
worthy of drunken frat boys, Constance has proven to be worthy of the title,
adult.

Natasha Barsotti is originally from Trinidad and Tobago in the Caribbean. She had high aspirations of representing her country in Olympic Games sprint events, but after a while the firing of the starting gun proved too much for her nerves. So she went off to university instead. Her first professional love has always been journalism. After pursuing a Master of Journalism at UBC , she began freelancing at Xtra West — now Xtra Vancouver — in 2006, becoming a full-time reporter there in 2008.

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