RCMP says It Gets Better

BY NATASHA BARSOTTI — Several RCMP members have joined the still-increasing ranks of individuals, organizations and sports teams that have created It Gets Better videos, aimed primarily at young queer people who face discrimination and harassment.

In a nearly 10-minute video, the 20 Mounties recall, in often moving and candid accounts, the challenges they faced growing up, including being the targets of slurs and bullying, confronting their sense of being different, and coming out to families.

Calling herself a “strategic planner,” one Mountie says she decided she could be herself only after leaving high school. “Until then, hide it away,” was her motto. “I hid it right till the day I graduated.”

Another, who told his mother he was leaving the priesthood because he was gay, says she “cried for three years straight.” A third says his mom was “super supportive” and was upset with him only for feeling he had to hide himself from her.

The Mounties’ participation in the project was initiated by the Surrey RCMP Youth Unit, with interviews taped over the summer.

After a number of young people took their lives as a result of bullying, syndicated columnist Dan Savage and his partner, Terry Miller, spearheaded the It Gets Better movement, creating a YouTube video in September 2010 to send a message of hope. The project has led to the creation of more than 50,000 videos that have been viewed more than 50 million times, the It Gets Better site states.

Natasha Barsotti is originally from Trinidad and Tobago in the Caribbean. She had high aspirations of representing her country in Olympic Games sprint events, but after a while the firing of the starting gun proved too much for her nerves. So she went off to university instead. Her first professional love has always been journalism. After pursuing a Master of Journalism at UBC , she began freelancing at Xtra West — now Xtra Vancouver — in 2006, becoming a full-time reporter there in 2008.

Keep Reading

Trans issues didn’t doom the Democrats

OPINION: The Republicans won ending on a giant anti-trans note, but Democrats ultimately failed to communicate on class

Xtra Explains: Trans girls and sports

Debunking some of the biggest myths around trans girls and fairness in sports

How ‘mature minor’ laws let trans kids make their own decisions

Canadian law lets some youth make medical or legal decisions for themselves, but how does it work?

To combat transphobia, we need to engage with the people who spread it

OPINION: opening up a dialogue with those we disagree with is key if we want to achieve widespread social change