Every time I start to write my next Porndoggy column, I spend time online researching. It’s a fun kind of research, because I get to look at a lot of porn. I invariably end up at AEBN.net, a massive pay-per-view site, where I get the most bang for my buck.
Still, I often end up going back to tried-and-true videos, things I downloaded years ago that still do it for me. Once again, I’m going to dig into the archives and talk about a scene on the super-mainstream site SeanCody.com called “Bailey’s Fuck Buddy.”
This scene is legendary in chatrooms and on file-sharing sites, because it’s just so real. The two ultra-perfect straight varsity guys who star in it are completely open-minded and free with their bodies.
Bailey talks a mile a minute and is really looking forward to exploring ass-play and all sorts of toys. The guys get naked and mess around with some paddles, then move straight to the dildos. Bailey gets his less talkative buddy to suck his cock, then Bailey tops him.
At one point Bailey fucks his own ass with a dildo while doing his buddy. There’s something so innocent about the scene — one of those rare but precious moments in porn when the models are doing it not just for the money.
Google it, look it up — it’s a good one.
It’s hot, sweet and goofy — and the boys use condoms.
I mention this because it’s harder and harder to find new porn that is not bareback. I know that it’s being produced, but in terms of the videos that make the front page of sites like AEBN, it’s all bareback, all the time. The piggier the better: loads all over faces and in holes, piss everywhere, lots of fisting and extreme penetration.
I’m all about freedom of expression. These are consenting adults. But some recent conversations with young people have alarmed me. One early-20s twink told me, “Yeah, I started dating my boyfriend, and you know, after the first month we stopped using condoms. Because, you know, we’re boyfriends.”
When I asked him if they had discussed testing, or monogamy, he just stared at me blankly and said, “No.”
Another young kid told me he thought that barebacking was OK because HIV is transmitted only via blood, and “You know, it’s not like my cock is bleeding up his ass.”
So do me a favour — next time you’re talking to a young gay guy, ask him if he understands anything about safer sex. Maybe those of us who have the knowledge need to share it in a personal, one-on-one manner, because the anecdotes I’m hearing from the youth are disturbing me.
And if they say it’s not hot, not sexy, not sweet or intimate, give them three key words: Bailey’s. Fuck. Buddy.
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