How do I talk to my partner about an open relationship?

Xtra columnist and author Kai Cheng Thom explores how to figure out if monogamy is right for you, and how to bring up an open relationship—and how not to do it. Our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.

Have a question for Kai? Email askkai@dailyxtra.com.

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