I get flirty vibes from my “straight” friend. What do I do?

Xtra columnist and author Kai Cheng Thom looks at how to deal with a flirty, but supposedly straight, friend. Our latest in the video series “Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,” offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.

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