Rock around the clit

Jamye Waxman's top cunnilingus tips

Sex expert Jamye Waxman has one key tip for anyone going down on a female partner — don’t start directly on the clitoris.

Waxman says it’s important to cover all areas, including the clitoris, but she recommends rocking “around the clit.”

“Some women like a little tongue in the vagina,” she reminds.

In an interview with Xtra, Waxman attempts to answer the question of whether same-sex couples give better oral sex than straight couples.

For more on Waxman’s top cunnilingus tips, check out our video.



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