Sex ‘Porn This Way’ By Lina Harper • May 25, 2011 11:41 am EDT Keep Reading Love Like MineAfter decades of rejection, I found the acceptance I’d been looking for—in friendshipMy friends helped me realize I was worthy of the love I’d desperately sought Love Like MineI’m fat. My partner is trans. I’ve never felt so understoodOur unruly bodies continue to surprise me in their overlapping struggles Love Like MineMy queer friends taught me to say ‘I love you.’ Now I say it as often as I canMy family showed love through action, but my friends helped me learn to say it out loud Love Like MineLoving my partner is easy. Finding the courage to stay feels harderOur decade together has helped me see myself as capable of change, rather than as always looking for a way out Advertisement