Growing up with a gay dad

Alison Wearing on Confessions of a Fairy's Daughter

Alison Wearing’s Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter tells the story of a 12-year-old girl whose father comes out of the closet.

It happened more than 30 years ago, when Wearing lived with her family in small-town Ontario.

“I was 12 when [my father] came out,” Wearing says. “So I spent my adolescence telling stories about what was happening – making up stories, making up lies to cover up the dancing pink elephant behind me that I couldn’t reveal.”

The stories that Wearing made up slowly transformed into something much closer to the truth. She wrote an essay about her experiences and eventually created a one-woman show before turning her stories into a book.

Below is an interview between Wearing and proud gay parent Elvira Kurt.

On occasion, the number of editors and other staff who contribute to a story gets a little unwieldy to give a byline to everyone. That’s when we use “Xtra Staff” in place of the usual contributor info. If you would like more information on who contributed to a particular story, please contact us here.

Read More About:
Video, Culture, Books, Canada, Arts

Keep Reading

Girlguiding patches

Trans girls banned from U.K. Girl Guides following Supreme Court ruling

The U.K. Women’s Institute also announced it will ban trans women from membership

Why is everyone obsessed with this gay Canadian hockey TV show?

“Heated Rivalry” has been a breakout hit. What’s the special sauce that’s making everyone so excited?
Stills from Somebody Somewhere, Clean Slate, and Mid-Century Modern - shows with queer characters that were cancelled or ended.

Nearly half of all queer characters on TV will disappear next year

An uptick in series endings and cancellations is bad news for queer and trans representation
On the left, a black and white still from Flaming Creatures featuring a person sniffing a bouquet of flowers. On the right, an illustrated poster for the film.

‘Flaming Creatures’ and the censorship of queer art

Jack Smith’s 1963 film “Flaming Creatures” was deemed legally obscene by the U.S. Supreme Court